Hi, I’m Amber Pecoraro.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been driven to succeed. Growing up in small-town Indiana, I learned the value of hard work and resilience on the basketball court—lessons that earned me a Division I college scholarship and later propelled me into a successful career in Government Acquisition.
From the outside, I had it all—a thriving career and a beautiful family. But on the inside? I felt like I was constantly running on a hamster wheel.
I carried the weight of my responsibilities as a mom, wife, and professional, convincing myself I had to do it all. I needed to be in control. I needed to be strong enough to push through. I needed to take care of everyone else first.
Until my body told me otherwise.
Stress, exhaustion, and burnout caught up with me—forcing me to face the truth: the very mindset that had once fueled my success was now holding me back.
Finding coaching changed everything.
I learned how to step out of survival mode and into self-trust. I rewired the beliefs that were keeping me stuck. And most importantly, I reconnected with the strong, capable, and confident woman I had always been.
Now, I help other ambitious professionals do the same.
Through coaching, I empower high achievers to quiet the noise, break free from overwhelm, and step into the confidence they already have within them.
Because success isn’t just about pushing harder. It’s about learning to trust yourself, lead with clarity, and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
Are you ready? Let’s do this together.
“Coaching completely transformed the way I approach communication, both as a leader and in my personal life. I now focus on outcomes, ask more questions, and empower my team to solve problems rather than taking everything on myself. This shift has increased engagement, collaboration, and ownership within my team, leading to better decision-making and higher-quality work. Having a coach to navigate challenges was truly invaluable—I highly recommend this program to all supervisors and leaders!
— Kori
“Amber coached me on issues/problems I was facing and helped me approach their solutions from alternate perspectives. Amber provided me with insight into my own subconscious biases, and helped me to see how they affected my decision making process. Because of these sessions, I am a better decision maker, a better supervisor, and am more able to provide coaching to employees on my team. This program was invaluable towards my leadership development.”
— Cale
Amber’s Bio
Amber Pecoraro is a Certified Life and Leadership Coach on a mission to help 1,000 moms escape what she calls the “Motherhood Matrix” — the invisible web of guilt, overwhelm, and never-enoughness that countless women feel stuck in.
With 17 years of leadership experience in U.S. Air Force Government Acquisition, Amber knows firsthand how high-achieving women can look unstoppable yet feel exhausted and unseen. As a mom of four kids, she lived the tension between success on the outside and burnout on the inside. Coaching became her turning point, allowing her to step into her truest self — powerful, present, and whole.
Now, as founder of B’joyed Coaching and author of the upcoming book Escape the Motherhood Matrix, Amber equips women with practical tools to dismantle old conditioning, reclaim their energy, and step into leadership at home, work, and in life as their whole selves.
When she’s not coaching, you can find Amber soaking in nature on a peaceful walk or spending quality time with her family.
“I had been dealing with several mindset issues that were inhibiting me from moving my business forward. I knew I needed a breakthrough, but was a little nervous about working with a coach. I didn’t know what to expect. I’m so glad I decided to work with Amber though. During each coaching session we talked about my mindset issues, how to process them, and practical ways to overcome them. I had “homework” to do each time that helped me stay focused between sessions. Amber’s guidance and knowledge helped me overcome those issues and I feel like a completely different business owner!”
— Vicki
“Coaching transformed my leadership approach, helping me lead with “why” to increase my team’s motivation and engagement. I’ve become more aware of anxiety triggers, allowing me to process challenges rather than internalize them. By empowering my team to take full ownership of their work, I’ve boosted their confidence and our organization’s overall effectiveness. Coaching has been a game-changer for me and my team.”
— Marc